Thursday, January 29, 2015

Thoughtful Thursdays - Think Before You Speak

This week on thoughtful Thursdays thinking before you speak. Seems everyone has that person in their life who has a better story to tell, better life, better job, better kids, better everything or so you think.

I have a few I have had to deal with over the years and still do. I wish I could get rid of them out of my life but things my child is involved in, work, things I'm involved in doesn't allow this to happen. And its hard to push them out of your head! Just because THEY think they have the best in life, jobs, kids, other half's job, ect doesn't mean they are any better than you. Seems to me these are the people that either push their kids to far or shelter them to the point that when the do go out into the "real" world they aren't going to know what to do.

So if you have a bragger, know it all, what ever word works for you remember you may not having everything they do, but you are still you and doing the best you can for yourself, and your family and kids if you have them. We are all our own person. Don't ever try to be like someone else, it will just depress you. Just because they have the best of everything or have to have the best of everything doesn't mean they are happy.

So if you are happy where you are be thankful for that. We all wish for bigger and better things, it depends on how you work towards that goal. Baby steps may be the way to go for you. You may be the person who saves up for something big rather than just go out and buy it. That's fine! As long as your happy that's what matters. Those who brag are often not happy people deep inside.


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